Don’t let your heart for people get in the way of your need for skill and leadership on your team, and don’t let your need for leadership get in the way of the love your team members need. There is a right choice that lays in the balance of every unique situation.
Pray about it and make the right decision. Lead well supporting and training the people you want to pour your life into. By the way, the leaders in this diagram are the ones doing the heavy lifting carrying the arrow, not cheering from the top.
Mattofact: Love and lead, but you need to know when to let which one steer the ship.